Remembering the past and reacting with it, reliving it over and over in your mind, and grieving over what had happened is a sort of insanity. It is surly not wise and surly will not bring you one single moment of peace or comfort. It will only keep your mind busy with something that does not exist anymore. Its a killing for you well and spirit. If your wise enough then that tragical past of yours should not see the light again because it had happened and ended, not grief will bring it back nor worry will fix it ,why? because its nothing now it doesn’t exist anymore.
Do not live in the nightmare of the past do not drawn your self in some old sad memories and live between the shadows of all that you have missed in the past, you can not lead the river back to its fountainhead , nor the baby back to its mother’s womb ,or even the tear back to your eye.
Reading the book of the past is a waste of the present hour, unless you were recalling that past to learn from your mistakes, otherwise there is no use of recalling it. Allah mentioned the old nations and what they did then said Quran [2:141]" That was a people that hath passed away. They shall reap the fruit of what they did, and ye of what ye do! Of their merits there is no question in your case: " it’s over now and done, and yet God mentioned the stories of these old nations so that we learn from there mistakes and not repeat what they did again.
It is a bane to be distracted away from present and only think about the sad past. Do not neglect your beautiful castles and cry over the old ruins, Do not spend your life daydreaming about something or someone you missed in the past, there is always another chance to catch up with what you have missed, and remember if all humans and Jens in this earth gathered to bring one moment of the past back they wouldn’t because its just impossible.
People do not look back when they walk neither look behind because the wind is headed forward, the stream is running forward and the caravan of life is walking forward. Do not oppose the course of life and live your current day, for in each day you live you get a chance to forget about past and head for the future .
Do not live in the nightmare of the past do not drawn your self in some old sad memories and live between the shadows of all that you have missed in the past, you can not lead the river back to its fountainhead , nor the baby back to its mother’s womb ,or even the tear back to your eye.
Reading the book of the past is a waste of the present hour, unless you were recalling that past to learn from your mistakes, otherwise there is no use of recalling it. Allah mentioned the old nations and what they did then said Quran [2:141]" That was a people that hath passed away. They shall reap the fruit of what they did, and ye of what ye do! Of their merits there is no question in your case: " it’s over now and done, and yet God mentioned the stories of these old nations so that we learn from there mistakes and not repeat what they did again.
It is a bane to be distracted away from present and only think about the sad past. Do not neglect your beautiful castles and cry over the old ruins, Do not spend your life daydreaming about something or someone you missed in the past, there is always another chance to catch up with what you have missed, and remember if all humans and Jens in this earth gathered to bring one moment of the past back they wouldn’t because its just impossible.
People do not look back when they walk neither look behind because the wind is headed forward, the stream is running forward and the caravan of life is walking forward. Do not oppose the course of life and live your current day, for in each day you live you get a chance to forget about past and head for the future .
